Technology That Makes You More Human
ForgetMeNot was built on the belief that technology should strengthen relationships, not replace them.
Our Mission
In a world where we're more connected than ever yet struggle to maintain meaningful relationships, ForgetMeNot provides the tools to help you be the friend, family member, or colleague you want to be.
We believe that remembering birthdays, sending thoughtful messages, and choosing perfect gifts shouldn't require superhuman memory or constant mental overhead. AI should handle the logistics so you can focus on what matters: genuine human connection.
But AI assistance should never come at the cost of privacy. Your relationships are deeply personal, and your data about them should be completely under your control.
Our Values
Your data stays yours. Row-level security, on-device processing, and complete transparency about data handling.
Technology should enhance relationships, not replace them. AI assists, but you remain the human at the center.
Released under AGPL-3.0. Self-host for free, audit the code, contribute improvements. Transparency builds trust.
No vendor lock-in. Export your data anytime. Delete everything with one tap. You own your relationships.
Why We Built ForgetMeNot
We live busy lives. Between work, family, and daily responsibilities, it's easy to forget important dates, miss opportunities to connect, or struggle to find the perfect gift. The mental load of maintaining relationships can be overwhelming.
Existing tools either focus on general note-taking (Notion, Obsidian) or extract value from your data through surveillance capitalism. There wasn't a solution that combined AI assistance with genuine privacy respect.
ForgetMeNot combines best-in-class AI (OpenAI, Anthropic Claude) with privacy-first architecture. We process voice memos on-device, use row-level database security, and give you complete control over your data.
Instead of passive note-taking, we provide active assistance: smart reminders, AI message generation, gift recommendations, and gesture automation. We help you take action, not just store information.
We envision a world where technology amplifies our capacity for thoughtfulness rather than replacing genuine human connection. Where AI handles logistics so you can focus on being present.
ForgetMeNot should become invisible infrastructure - quietly ensuring you never miss a birthday, always have the right words, and consistently show up for the people who matter to you.
Built by People Who Care
ForgetMeNot is built by a small team passionate about creating technology that respects users while genuinely helping them. We're developers, designers, and relationship-oriented humans who believe software should serve people, not exploit them.
Open Source & Transparent
ForgetMeNot is released under the AGPL-3.0 license. You can inspect every line of code, self-host for free, and contribute improvements back to the community.
We believe transparency builds trust. When an app handles your most personal relationship data, you deserve to know exactly what it does with it. Open source isn't just our business model - it's our ethical commitment.