Remember the moments that matter
Life gets full. The people you love shouldn't get forgotten. ForgetMeNot helps you show up for the relationships that matter most—with AI-powered thoughtfulness, seamless cross-device sync, and uncompromising privacy.
You care deeply—we help you show it
Capture the little details that make your relationships unique—their favorite coffee order, that story they told you, the gift they mentioned wanting. Your memories stay private, processed right on your device with on-device AI transcription.
Smart reminders help you reach out before birthdays slip by, check in when someone's going through something, and celebrate the moments that matter. Syncs across all your devices in real-time.
Bank-level encryption, on-device processing, row-level security. Your relationships are precious and personal. No tracking, no selling your data, no compromises. Export or delete anytime.
Your relationships, everywhere you are
Native iOS performance with seamless cloud sync. Work offline, sync online, and self-host if you want complete control.
The little things that make relationships feel special
Everything you need to be the friend, partner, or family member you want to be
Mnemo AI Concierge
Your personal relationship assistant, activated by simple gestures. Thoughtfulness shouldn't require effort—just a swipe, tap, or long-press.
Gesture Automation
Swipe right on a contact to draft a personalized message. Long-press to create a smart reminder. Double-tap to get gift ideas. Intuitive actions for thoughtful results.
Context-Aware Intelligence
Mnemo learns from your interaction history. It knows that Sarah prefers texts in the morning, that John's birthday needs a week's notice, and that your mom appreciates voice calls.
Privacy-First AI
All AI processing happens on-device when possible. Your relationship data never trains external models. What you share stays yours.
Here's how it works
Start with the people who matter
One-tap contact import. ForgetMeNot automatically picks up birthdays and helps you organize unlimited contacts. No manual data entry required.
Capture what makes them unique
After a conversation, quickly save what you learned with voice memos or text notes. On-device transcription keeps your memories private and searchable.
Get reminded at the right time
AI learns when you like to plan ahead and sends smart reminders with enough time to be thoughtful. Works across all your devices with real-time sync.
Let AI do the heavy lifting
Generate personalized messages for SMS, WhatsApp, or email. Get gift recommendations from our 8-step quiz. Use gesture automation for instant thoughtfulness.
Show up with confidence
You'll have everything you need—gift ideas based on what you know, message suggestions that sound like you, and the peace of mind that comes from never forgetting.
Join 5,000+ thoughtful professionals
— Sarah M., Product Manager
— James L., Security Engineer
— Maria G., Sales Executive
Why ForgetMeNot wins
| Feature | ForgetMeNot | Notion | Calendar Apps |
|---|---|---|---|
| Relationship-specific AI | — | — | |
| On-device voice transcription | — | — | |
| AI message generation (SMS/WhatsApp/Email) | — | — | |
| Gesture automation workflows | — | — | |
| Gift recommendations (8-step quiz) | — | — | |
| Unlimited contacts | |||
| Real-time cross-device sync | |||
| Offline mode | Limited | Limited | |
| Self-hosting option | — | — | |
| One-time lifetime pricing | Subscription only | Varies |
Your relationships are sacred. Your privacy is too.
We built ForgetMeNot with privacy at the core, not as an afterthought
On-device processing
Voice transcription happens right on your phone using Apple's Speech framework. Your intimate memories never leave your device unless you choose to sync them with end-to-end encryption.
Row-level security
Database-level isolation ensures your data is yours alone. Even our team can't access your notes, contacts, or memories. That's by design, not just policy.
No tracking, no ads, no BS
We don't track your behavior, sell your data to brokers, or show you ads based on who you care about. Our business model is simple: you pay for the app, we build great features.
Your data, your choice
Export everything in standard JSON format. Delete your entire account with one tap—instant, permanent, no retention. You own your data, not us.
Bank-level encryption
AES-256 encryption at rest, TLS 1.3 in transit. Your data is encrypted with keys only you control. Even if someone breached our servers, they'd get encrypted gibberish.
Open-source transparency
Licensed under AGPL-3.0. Audit our code, self-host your instance, verify our promises. Transparency builds trust—we have nothing to hide.
Open Source Commitment
ForgetMeNot is AGPL-3.0 licensed. View our source code, contribute improvements, or self-host your own instance. Privacy through transparency.
View on GitHubTry it free, keep it forever (if you want)
No tricks, no fine print. Start free, upgrade when you're ready. Pay once, own forever.
- Up to 25 contacts
- Basic reminders
- Voice memories
- Full privacy features
- Unlimited contacts
- AI message generation
- Gift recommendations
- Mnemo AI Concierge
- Priority support
- Everything in Monthly
- Cross-device sync
- Offline mode
- Priority support
- 2 months free
- Everything in Annual
- All future updates
- Never pay again
- Early feature access
- Self-hosting option
All plans include full privacy protection, bank-level encryption, and complete data ownership.
30-day money-back guarantee • Cancel anytime, no questions asked
Show up for the people who matter
Life gets full. Love doesn't have to get forgotten. Start remembering today.